Insulting
The Times - Millionaire’s wife ‘forced to abort baby girls’
Her allegations against 18 people have sent shockwaves across India by breaking a strict code of silence on such matters and exposing the extent of female foeticide among the urban middle and upper classes.
“This is a common thing even in rich families — a lot of them get their women to abort girls,” Mrs Salotia told The Times from Gujarat, where she has gone into hiding after the release on bail of everyone except her husband. “In our culture, girls are not important. But I can’t tolerate it any more because it’s insulting.”
The killing of newborn girls has been common in rural India, where a daughter is perceived as a financial burden because her family has to pay a hefty dowry when she is married. But since the advent of ultrasound technology, abortion of female foetuses has become increasingly prevalent, not only in rural communities but also among the urban middle classes.
An international team of researchers estimated last year that ten million girls had been aborted in India over the past two decades, while the Indian Medical Association says that five million are aborted annually.
The result is an increasingly severe gender imbalance, with only 927 women for every 1,000 men in India, according to the 2001 census, down from 945 women a decade earlier.
The worst imbalance, however, is in Indian cities where those with money have ready access to private doctors, who take bribes to skirt a 1994 ban on ultrasound gender tests.
A recent survey indicated that there were only 882 women for every 1,000 men in Defence Colony, one of the upmarket districts of Delhi. …
The daughter of a government official in Gujarat, she graduated from university with a degree in commerce. Her sister is a doctor and her brother an architect — both based in London. She said that her ordeal began after she gave birth to twin girls in 1997, a year after she married her husband.
She claimed that his family started to harass her and even demanded compensation of £30,000 from her father because she had produced two girls. When she became pregnant again in 1998, her husband forced her to abort at four months after an ultrasound test showed the child to be female, she said. “He said he didn’t want another baby girl. He wants a boy because he’s concerned about who will run our empire — that’s the mentality.”
In 2001 Mrs Salotia was again forced to abort after an illegal gender test revealed she was carrying another girl, she said. After that, she said, her husband started frequenting sexologists and even suggested that she have sex with one of his two brothers as they both had sons. When she refused, and threatened to commit suicide, her husband’s family became even more abusive, beating her regularly.
So I guess education isn’t everything in achieving equality for women? She keeps mentioning “culture” and “mentality”. Maybe that has something to do with it? That a degree in commerce and what is, ah, an apparently extraordinarily liberal application of reproductive rights, can’t?
July 27th, 2007 at 7:16 pm
Until the practice of dowry is stopped - and I mean completely - the situation for women in India will remain hopeless. Get 100 women as President or Prime Minister, it makes no difference. The anti-dowry law must be vigorously enforced. As long as there is dowry, a girl will be a financial drain on her family.
But will dowry be stopped?
No.
Greed wins again!
July 28th, 2007 at 11:46 am
The irony being for all these “educated” people is that it is the male’s sperm that determines male or female. The female’s egg has nothing to do with it.
July 28th, 2007 at 6:04 pm
Yeah I think the complete lack of enforcement of all these laws over there is astonishing.
I suppose it’s a sign of improvement that he wanted her to have sex with his brothers, since they had daughters, which means he at least knows that much about basic biology. Beating her for not doing that rather than beating her for having girls.